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female
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30-35,
*arnet
writes:Im just 18.im in love with my teacher.hes 33 i dont care about the age gap.hes married and devoced. His wife has left him because he cant make kids.i told him dat i love him.I think that he cant belive it.How can i tell him that im dead sirious on this. My friends hate me becouse of this please help me.
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reader, Garnet +, writes (25 July 2010):
Garnet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnkz onece again.dude we ar nt supoz 2 hav sex be4 marrge.wel he hez nt my skul teacher .wel no 1 like to be alne in this world r8.i hope he alzo da same.hez a gud perzn.I Tnk teachr n stdnt afir wont be a matter in asia cz datz nrmal here .lot of teachrz marng stdntz.hez a vry gud perzn he has a big heart n hez ideas n my ideaz ar matcng.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Maybe you should really sit him down, talk to him, and see what his true feelings for you are. Him being a teacher makes things way more complicated if you are his student.
He may just not share the same feelings for you in return. Sometimes that happens and we all just have to move on. Sorry.
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female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 If the age gap isn't a problem, then he simply does not love you in the way you want. Sorry, but that happens.
If you are having obsessive thoughts about this, spend more time with your friends, finish school, talk to your parents for help.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Because he understands love, and this isn't it. He also understands school girl crushes can get intense, that's all it is
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female
reader, Garnet +, writes (24 July 2010):
Garnet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you ppl.im frm asia so da age gap wont be that much problm.he knwz dat i love him.i gav a i lv u crd and a book.he said thank you.whn i cl hm hez tlkng u knw jst stf.nt dat much lng 10 minz.he dsnt have a gf.i knw dat ppl plz remembr im frm asia da culture iz diffrnt.i lv hm. hez a nyc pesn i dnt want hm 2 be sad.
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 July 2010):
Unfortunately, in love matters, life can be very unfair. It is about timing and readiness. In this case, a) he's your teacher and therefore having a relationship with you is considered unethical by his employers, b) there's a significant age gap, which may not matter to YOU, but it might matter very much to HIM, c) he may be involved with someone else already and doesn't feel it's appropriate to share the details of his personal life with you, and d) he doesn't owe you love back.
Sorry, you have made your feelings plain, and it sounds as though he has made his plain to you as well, you just don't want to accept the rejection.
Try to understand that this isn't going to work for you, and move on. If you need to, change schools or classrooms, so that you can finish your education properly without distractions.
Good luck with your schooling.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I used to be a teacher and about 5% of the girls fell in love with me. I would never let them become intimate in any way and I'm sure your teacher would be the same. If he did it would be very unprofessional. Because the teacher needs to command respect to convey knowledge he develops an image of somebody like god (you must love and worship). Somehow girly love gets mixed up in this and next thing you know girl(s) are looking starry eyed at teacher. Men are more interested in sex than love so it is easy for male teachers to take advantage of this situation if it suits them. Mind you they will pay the price. Don't go there.
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reader, Garnet +, writes (24 July 2010):
Garnet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHelp me plz
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