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female
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30-35,
*ohnlover999
writes:Ok well my boyfriend is extremely shy around me i talk to him and txt him and he expresses his feelings then but not in person...he can french kiss me but he cant hold my hand....hes shy and i know its kinda wrong to make the first mov but he was so shy i made the first move to our first real kiss(made out)....i want to know why hes so shy around me and doesnt express himself around me cause im comfortable around him i act myself but why is he so shy around me and not his friends or anyone else....is he having trouble expressing himself?????? did i make a big mistake making the first move to our real kiss(make out) cuz he was to shy or am i ok....he said he enjoyed it and it was his first time and my first making out kissss so did i make the mistake of doing that??????
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reader, rivi +, writes (24 July 2010):
Well if you want him to go all the way and have full sex with you why not send him a text message saying that's what you want and does he want it too. ?
Since he's less embarrassed expressing himself in texts you might get a straight answer.
On the subjext of str8 - are you sure / is he sure he is ? He could be in the closet, even to himself.
Most str8 boys would take you up enthusiastically on an offer for full on sex so if he doesn't you maybe need to keep him as a Platonic friendship and look elsewhere to get yr sexual needs satisfied.
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reader, tineyy +, writes (24 July 2010):
Take it from someone who has a shy boyfriend.. In the beginning you will me making all the first moves, and that's fine. There is nothing wrong with that in my opinion. But if you don't feel comfortable doing that.. You can always be a little demanding. Like verbally telling him to hold your hand or kiss you. Hang in there, it took my shy guy about three months before he started to take the lead. He will come around :).
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