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*yronm20
writes:I was talking to a girl i've liked a lot for years. she knows i like her. we were just talking when the topic of virginity came up. I am a virgin and i told her. she avoided the question and then got mad. she asked if i thought girls who lost their virginity to someone they love are stupid. i said no. now she's ignoring me. she didnt say directly if she was a virgin or not a virgin. wat should i do? what should i believe? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007):
She has already sex with a guy she thought she loved. She totally regrets it now that she sees it in a better light. That's what happens to most teenage girls.
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reader, tyronm20 +, writes (26 October 2007):
tyronm20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe still has me as a contact on her instant messenger. Still not speaking to me though. I guess its something i'm having trouble believing. After all it wasnt a direct answer. She may have felt uncomfortable with the question in general, not because she isnt a virgin. She could have said that because she thought if she told me something i didnt want to hear i would drop the issue. Maybe it is true and shes not virgin. I dont know. . .
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 When you do get a chance to talk to her again, and the subject comes up, listen to her with empathy. It almost sounds like, she loved him, but now she regrets not waiting until later.
I've met so many girls over the years that when they talk about their virginity, at the time they liked the guy, but now their thinking "why did I give it to him". She may be regretting who she lost it too, it she did loose it.
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