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writes: what should I do if my husband never does anything for getting better.He is not touching me, he is not doing anything else just works. I have no more idea... I tried, talking to him, changing things.... I'm taking care of myself. I hate to leave. It scares me so much. But how am I going to stay.He won't talk, he hates when I try to talk about this. He says, he loves me, but what is the sign. I really feel so horrible, because I think, life is forcing me to move on, but I just don't want to.I don't know how to stay, I don't know how to leave. What should I do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 November 2008):
You've tried every thing you can here. I think you need to accept that this is not your fault and go.
Start small. Look for jobs if you need one and then look online at places you can rent. You may be able to imagine life alone a bit better once you've seen a nice flat just for you. You can always go and stay with a friend for a few days first to get used to be away from him.
Then it's just a matter of packing a bag and going, you can come back for the rest of your stuff at a later date.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): You've tried talking so what else can you do? Is there some kind of marriage guidance where you are? If not then I suggest you go and go now before you get any older. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Make sure you take you share of what is yours though and find out your legal rights.
These things never come right and it is best for a clean break. Do you have a very good friend who could let you stay with her for a short while until you get used to the idea of being on your own and looking for a place to live?
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