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writes:So I've come to accept after a month that I need to break up with my boyfriend. He's lied to me, he's hanging out with tons of girls all the time, we're long distance, and we're on a break right now which has only seemed to make him hang out with more girls and make lots of plans without me. A month ago he almost broke up with me, but I convinced him to stay with me. I guess it's come to an end sadly, and before this break is over, i think i should just break up with him. Is that a good idea? And if so, how do I go about it? Whats the best way to go about it?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
If possible, ask to meet and say it to his face that it's not working out, if not possible to meet, then phone him and tell him it's over. No letter, no texts. This requires a personal touch. I think he's playing everyone left, right and centre, and the time has come for you to just end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): You could always try the approach alot of people use when on a break.. just don't tell him anything, and he'll get the hint. After all, if he's hanging around other girls alot and if he's lied to you and you've been the one trying to convince him to stay together, you don't owe him any reason for leaving him, and he's already acting like he gave up on your relationship anyway. I would just ignore him and when he possibly comes begging or whining about what's next or why he hasn't heard from you, just tell him you're long over him, and you've moved on. What's the worst that could happen.. he might think something negative about you? Oh well.. he already shows you how little the break up is affecting him, so go for it and move on, as well. Alot of people use break ups as a chance to date or have sex and galavant with others, so that when they get back together, they can say they were on a break and therefore not going with you anyway.. I think this guy's using that idea where he can.
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