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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now. But every time we don't see each other we fight a lot and we both always ask if one another is cheating or is thinking about it. Also, I am 16 and pregnant and he swears he is going to stick around, he wants me to keep the baby and i want to keep it as well. bu overall what should i do? Why do we doubt our relationship? Should I take him for his word? Reply to this Question
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reader, sha4634 +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Well hun, The fighting because you cannot see each other a lot is pretty normal for some people, But this can tear you both apart. If you guys are asking one another is cheating or thinking about it, this shows that you both do not trust each other 100%. A relationship is built on trust and without it, you both won't get anywhere. You need to sit down and have a talk with him. And you both also need to understand that in life you won't always be seeing each other. Spending time with each other adds more strength to the relationship if you can handle it. You are pregnant and he say's he's going to stick around so trust him on that. Take him for his word, but don't think so much of it. You both have to build up trust in your relationship and stop doubting each other. Sit down and talk to him about future plans and how he feels about everything. Don't be scared to open up to him. :] Hope I helped hun. Don't be afraid to message me if you need to.
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