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writes:I have being in a relationship for the past 4 years with a separated woman that has 2 kids with her. We started as friends and hide our interests from her kids until about a year but I have also noticed that she prefer to spend time with her coworkers male and female after work and doesn't let me know until I call her to find out where she is or why she hasn't called me. She usually says she didn't noticed when the time passed by but in the last time that this happened she went out for lunch around 12 and it was past 6 when I called her. My guess is that she doesn't love me even that she says she does. It seems to me that I am for her weekends only.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Hello there ! Im thinking you probably need to let her know how you feel about this and see where you 2 stand.Tell her that you would like it if she was a little more considerate about your feelings and ask her if she really loves you or is it just words she speaks.Be careful though and dont let one just walk on your heart .I have been kinda in the same shoes you are in now and its not fair not knowing how someone feels for you so just take her out and sit and have coffee or something and come out and ask her to be honest ....
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