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*evcad
writes:It all started when my girlfriend started texting my mate telling him that she's dumped me and fancies him. And she asked him if he would go out with her. Now I think she fancies him and her mates told me that she's going to dump me after Valentine's day. What should I do? Please help.
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reader, levcad +, writes (24 January 2007):
levcad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshes dumped me so dont bother writein on it
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reader, cherub +, writes (23 January 2007):
 There may be some truth in what your mate said or maybe not so the best thing to do is talk to your girlfriend first in an open,honest and mature manner.If she wants to moves on then let her moves on as she had already made her mind up.If your feeling for her is strong it will hurt but try not to be too bitter because it only hurts yourself in the long run,i.e changing the way you view women or relationship.
You cannot change someone,you can only change yourself.However,talking through and she realise her true feeling is for you then good luck t you two.If not,go through the pain for a while then make a fresh start to find someone who is compatible and loves you as you love her.I empathise that this may not be easy but think of it as a learning curve and the good times had enriched your life and the bad times allow you to move on easier.
Best wishes.
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reader, x..HelpfulWun..x +, writes (23 January 2007):
 ask her if its true. or just dump her before..and tell her that shes not good anough embarris her like she did to you!!!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Do you know for sure that your friends are being honest and don't have some ulterior motive? If she is going to break up with you you can't really do anything about it. The person who wants out of the relationship always gets their own way, however unfair that may seem. Hope things turn out okay for you though.
CD
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (23 January 2007):
 You should have a talk with her about it. Unless you've seen the texts your friends could be telling porkies to try and make you jealous or something alike.
PE
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reader, SweetSixteen +, writes (23 January 2007):
 you have to make sure your information is correct before you take any action.
if the information is correct, i know it may sound bitter, but you would be alot happier if you broke up with her first. not to get one over on her but she's obviously not happy in the realtionship and if you think about it neither are you
if the information is incorrect you need to talk to her about how you feel about each other. cos if i'm honest by being on here you can't say you trust her, you must have some doubt in her somewhere.
remember trust should allways be a large part of any realationship
Hope i helped SweetSixteen!
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reader, hiddenspace +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Has your girlfriend told you that she was texting your mate? I think you should confront her about this, if you haven't already. Do you not think that your mate might have a crush on your girlfriend and wants to split you up, or perhaps you and your girlfriend had a spat,, and she was complaining to her friends, like most girls do, when things go slightly wrong.
I wouldn't rush into assumptions, it could all be easily explained. Just ask her.
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