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writes: im having an affair with my teenage sweetheart. he loves me and i have feelings for him too but im engaged to a great guy and dont want to lose him. weve been stuck in a rut recently and ive gotten bored but nontheless love him loads. im enjoying the affair, its something i never thought id do but i dont want to stop it or lose me fiancee. guess i want my cake and want to eat it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Hi sorry if it came across as a bit harsh but i do know just what you are saying. I had to turn my back on a lovely guy to keep it together with my husband. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know what your saying shandypop and i appreciate your reply but unless you are in the same situation you would not understand what im feeling. i do love my fiance, and have no intentions of leaving him. this affair is wrong i know that and i want to stop it but everytime i see this other guy i melt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Stop right now. How can you say you love your fiancee and have an affair. Just think of the hurt you will cause if all of this is found out. And it will be. I all comes to the surface one day. Please think carefully, how would you feel if you had it done to you. The hurt can go on for quite some time. You are having your cake and eat it but it can come back to poison you one day.
Take care
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