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writes: I have this boyfriend. I really do like him and I can see the good in him. But I think he doesn't know what he wants. Because one day I'm his girlfriend and he is as sweet as can be towards me, then the next day he says he hates me and doesn't want me anymore that only lasts for that day. Then that night he will call and say he is sorry and he can't lose me. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005):
You are annoying him at some level. Some days he can handle it and some days he cant.
Ask someone to observe you together for a few days casually and have them tell you what you do thats annoying. It really could be anything... you probably dont even notice you do it
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (14 November 2005):
 When he is being fine with you, ask him why he blows hot and cold and what makes him feel as if he hates you. Ask him what his thoughts are before he says such hurtful words to you. Explain to him that it can't go on like this and that if he doesn't want to lose you, then he is going to have to change and perhaps get some help to investigate why he alters in this way.
If he isn't prepared to talk about it or to change, then you may have to consider not being with him or else your life with him will always be like this. It will not be secure and will you want your future with him like that?
Talk to him today to see if you can find out why he acts in this way and if there is anything you can do together to prevent it.
I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): tell him its over. you can do better.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (14 November 2005):
there's something odd going on here. is there a chance he could be suffering from depression? find out some facts about it. see if you notice other characteristics and if this is the case, he needs help before you can be together properly. if this is not the case, do you think he may be seeing someone else or putting on a show that he doesn't like you for the sake of someone else?
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