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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I think I've fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have. There's this guy in my school, and to be completely honest... he's perfect, well, for me. But there's a problem, he's a year younger than me and already has a girlfriend. I met him through this competition I did in school and our teachers introduced us. We did it one night last week and I just felt something between us. We worked in a pair and kept touching and hugging and just flirting really, something just felt right. The teacher took a photo of us which I can't stop worrying about cause if his girlfriend sees she will be really mad cause we look really like a couple! Even the teacher mentioned that we seemed really close. We have the complete same interests, we're basically the same person.She is the most horrible person in both looks and personality i've ever met. She's fat and ugly and absolutely everyone in school hates her because she's constantly trying to show off and acts so slutty all the time. I just can't understand why he's with her, they've been together like 10 months, so before we met, but he's just started to ignore her now.I caught him lots of times staring at me, and at lunch he's been moving over to where me and my friends sit and showing off like talking loud and fighting with other lads literally right at the back of me like he wants to get my attention? On the corridors he like pokes me and starts pulling tongues and I just can't figure him out. I asked my friend who's in his class and she says he flirts with loads of girls but I can't help but think there's something different when it comes to us. I can't stop thinking about him at all and its driving me crazy and I just want it to stop but I can't and I'm starting to get depressed and frustrated.There's another trip coming up which we're both going on, and I haven't got a clue what's going to happen, but I'm hoping something will. I need to know what to do, whether to flirt back, talk to him or just give up and accept that he's with someone else and forget about him like I have every other boy in my life?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (16 November 2008):
 He's in high school and he's not engaged or married, but he has been with his current girlfriend for 10 months. If HE makes a move, make sure that you tell him that YES, you are interested but you won't get involved with him unless he is Single. And then stick to it. If you pursue him and are the aggressor while he is still in a "couple", you will ruffle a lot of feathers, and nobody need to lose friends and alienate people in high school. If he IS interested, then it will be up to him to make the first move.
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