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writes: Dear Agony Aunt, I had been dating one of my friends 6 months ago, for 4 months. Things were perfect, we had so much fun, could talk about everything and we were really close. He was the most polite and caring person I knew, treated me with respect and I had feelings for him I have never felt before, though i'm not sure it was love, it was definately leading to that.Before we dated, he had only been single a year from a previous 4 year relationship. One night out of the blue, he said how he couldn't take the relationship further as he needs to be alone and that it was nothing I had done wrong. Ever since, contact between us has slowly stopped, and I haven't seen him in months.I can't get over it. I still have all the same feelings that I felt months ago. People say time heals but I'm in so much pain and hurt over this. He's on my mind a lot, and it's not getting easier. Do I forget about him and move on? Or wait until he is ready?
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reader, babesta +, writes (19 September 2005):
read the book 'He is just not that into you'it is a harsh book, but the message is that men will walk on water for the women they want. there is no set amount of time that a person needs to be single, and if he wanted to be with you he would be. why are you missing him? arn't you having so much fun that you don't have time to think about him? My suggestion is to write a list of all the things you like and everything that makes you smile and work through your list one at a time.Good luck and enjoy being you!
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