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I think I'm a lesbian, but I still sometimes think guys are cute. Help! I'm confused!

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Question - (6 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I Think im bisexual or Bi-curious. I dont know what the heck i am. I think girls are very attractive. Sometimes more then guys. I kinda hate guys. But i dont enjoy sex anymore with a male. I dont enjoy sex what so ever because of my crystal meth addiction.It took all my feeling away. Anyways. I would love to have a girlfriend.I want to go lesbian and forget all about guys. But i still sometimes think guys are cute. Im very confused and need some advice and help.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (6 February 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntThere is a lot of gray area between gay-straight-bi. Don't be so hasty to throw yourself into a box! Just call it bi-curious for now, I guess... it sounds to me like if you need to label yourself something, that would be the most accurate.

BUT, that's not even what's screaming off the page here. You have got to get off of this crystal meth! This will just turn your life into hell, sounds like it already is. You need to shape up your life, get yourself into rehab and get some help kicking that habit. Don't you want your life back? Don't you want the deliciousness of SEX back? You're missing out, sister and all for some drug that doesn't do anything for you but kill you slowly.

Kick that shit to the curb, girlfriend. Good luck!

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A female reader, loving arms United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2009):

babe you sound like you have a lot of issues and being lesbian, straight or bi is not one of them. They to seek help to get off the drugs, after that, and only after, you will be able to make beter judgements about the people you choose to share your life with. It really doesn't matter is they're male or female just go with what you're happy with.

I wish you the best of luck and happiness

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A female reader, blue neice United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2009):

It sounds to me like you are bi-curious and you have to try out a relationship with a woman to know if you are in fact bi-sexual.

you are still attracted to men so it seems you are not completely lesbian other wise the attraction would not exist.

try going to a gay bar, where you can meet a girl and find out what it is you really want.

its okay to be confused, you do not have to conform to society and you would be suprised at the amount of women who feel the same way you do.

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