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*ikki Nikkles
writes:Hey everyone! How's it going?Really quick question: I've got butt dimples (A.K.A dimples of venus). At first I thought I had some sort of severe, tragic accident when I was younger and the two dimples were "battle scars". Now that I've grown up and become rational (a little), I realize that they're dimples. But, um... Do you guys think that's cute, or strange? Just wondering! :)~Nikki Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (25 September 2010):
Nikki Nikkles wrote, "They're the ones just above my bikini line, on my lower back. (: "
Why the frowning face? Personally I'd probably see your dimples as not a big deal, either way - and part of your overall attractiveness. My wife & I spend a lot of our lovemaking time with her on top, and I like to caress her lower back, tracing the concave indentation, then the swell of her buttocks. If she had your dimples I'd probably give them extra attention.
(That's an area of her body where she is especially sensitive to "Spider's Legs" ("pattes d'araignée"). It's described in some of Dr. Comfort's "Joy of Sex" books - which are often available in the public libraries as well as mainstream bookstores.
This is a slightly ticklish stimulation, where you use just the pulpy tips of the fingers to give the VERY LIGHTEST POSSIBLE touch. You try to stimulate not so much the skin surface itself, but the tiny, almost invisible skin hairs. Seems to work best on the lower back, thighs, back of the neck, and sides of the ribcage but that probably varies a lot among individuals. It doesn't have to be strongly erotic - my kids found it a pleasurable way to relax when we put them to bed. But it's also a useful technique for the foreplay and afterglow portions of adult lovemaking. You and your B/F can learn to do this well for each other, and enjoy pleasuring each other this way WITHOUT having full sexual intercourse.)
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reader, Nikki Nikkles +, writes (25 September 2010):
Nikki Nikkles is verified as being by the original poster of the question To daletom:
They're the ones just above my bikini line, on my lower back. (:
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reader, daletom +, writes (19 August 2010):
Are you referring to dimples on your lower back - roughly at the top of your bikini bottom - or to dimples on your buttocks?
They're certainly part of what makes you, "YOU". When you meet the right guy he will either not really notice them very much, or he'll think they're cute. And . . . if we're talking about dimples on your buttocks, I hope that by the time he notices them you are very far along into a serious relationship with him!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Pictures please so I can judge if they are cute or not.
Just kidding. Please don't post pictures. Honestly, I don't often get a good look at my partner's naked bottom. Usually when we're both naked, I've got a hand on it or we're otherwise indisposed. I think we should embrace the things that make us different from everyone else. Consider them cute, why would they be anything else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Hiya
They are cute , i have to dimples face and one on bum , my man say's they are cute..they are part of you.
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