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writes: I am 15 and I have had my boyfriend for 6 weeks and I love him. Soon after we met I let him feel my breasts and a couple of nights ago I let him put his hand inside my panties. But now I think I let him go too far and that he will want me to go all the way. How do I tell him I think I made a big mistake and I don't want him to do that again or try anything else without losing him? Advice please quickly because we have a date for Friday.
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reader, jeff c +, writes (23 March 2006):
You should tell him your not ready for any heavy stuff yet and he should back off until you say you are ready. Never ever do anything you dont want to do especially if you feel pressured. Have respect for yourself always! This is very important. I remember when i was a 15 yr old lad i`d do anything and say anything to get into bed with a girl. His hormones will be racing around his body telling him he needs to have sex with anything that moves. Please don`t make the mistake of being pressured into anything. Take care.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (23 March 2006):
 Next time if things are moving too fast, just tell him.
I'm sure he is a reasonable guy and will understand if you him that you care about him a lot but physically you want to slow things down a little.
A lot of young girls often think that their boyfriends will freak out and dump them if they ask to slow things down where in reality most guys are very considerate and understand. They don;t want to force you into anything.
And the ones that do freak out and want to force you into things are not worth the time of day.
You sound like a reasonable, sensible girl and I'm sure your boyfriend knows that he is lucky to have you and will be more than happy to wait for you.
Good luck.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (22 March 2006):
 You don't have to do anything you don't want to do and have to be sure to let him know that you feel this was too far and you want slow down. If you don't let him know, he'll get confused and things will go downhill from there.
If you feel as much as you do for him, and he feels this too, there should be no problems when you tell him how you feel. Please don't feel pressured into backing down; this is not what you want and you have to let him know, preferably before friday!!!
Good luck and be strong, you seem like a sensible girl with a lot of respect for herself.
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