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writes: I need some advice, i am nearly six months pregnant and my boyfried hardly talks to me or about the baby. but when we are out or with his family he is happy to talk about it he has a daughter of 13 from his marriage and she has always been treated like a queen and he never lets her down but he always lets me down, and since he found out about the baby he is even more about her. she comes to our house every evening and weekends and stays till 9pm every nite and stays friday nites her mother dosent work and never is asked to pick her up or bring her to her classes. i dont know what to do anymore and feel so lonely all i get is silence and dont know why im being punished. please i need some advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): i totally understand where you are coming from i'm 4 months pregnant and i feel like my boyfriend on;y cares about the child he already has with anouther woman it kills me and i'm so lonely...
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reader, x_pixie_x +, writes (25 March 2006):
 you need to tell him how you feel, he might then understand. he's probly makeing everything more about his dauter because he can't face up to what is happening, so he wants to block it out with something else. if he still doesn't seem to care once u've expressed yourself then you should start thing about ending this one-side relationship. i hope everything turns out okay. good luck with the baby hun xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2006): I may have got this wrong, but to me its sounds like a bit of a one-sided relationship. Maybe he only talks about the baby in front of his family because he wants them to see he's interested. I think you should talk to him. If you don't hows he supposed to know how you feel? If hes unwilling to talk maybe you should think about getting out of the relationship. A baby is a big responsibility and he needs to get involved!
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