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writes:well here is the story. I had a best friend that i have lost. I met here in the 8th grade,right now i am in 10th grade. in the summer before this year me and her got really close to each other, to the point where i was closer to her then actual people in my family. we used to stay on the phone all night, just talking and joking all night. now when 10th grade started i felt like i was in love with her, but she wanted no more then friends. well anyway me and her have had lots of problems this year throughout the year, but this past month has really droven us apart because of me. well it all started when she got a boyfriend at the begining of october, and a month later her and him are already planning on getting married and moving away when she graduates in 2 years. but that isnt even the problem. One night i decided to text her boyfriend that i do not know (she gave me number, but told me to never text him) he got all mad because he thought me and des were having a relationship romantically but that wasnt the case at all, he then told her parents that i was texting him and they got mad and now they dont want me to talk to destiny anymore, which really sucks. A couple days later i then found out that destinys older brother tried to rape my sister back in highschool ten years ago, I then got furious and told destinys brother off. After that now her whole family dosent want me to talk to her anymore, and if they find out that she is talking to me she gets punished and she already has. her family not wanting us to talk has really caused a lot of problems between us lately, we cant even talk in front of people at school because some of her family goes there too. recently all the drama got to me and i called destiny a hoe and a piece of trash that may have just pushed her over the limit where SHE dosent even want to talk to me anymore. last night (5 days after i called her a hoe) i texted her telling her how much I miss her and that I want to talk to her but she didnt reply to any of the 5 texts that i sent her. I feel like I have lost the most important person to me, I dont know what to do without making things worse, she still means a lot to me and shes done a lot for me. any help would be appreciated. I need help on what I can do to move on from her, should I give up on talking to her or keep trying?
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reader, mario23 +, writes (25 November 2010):
mario23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help guys
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reader, raiders +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Give her time and let that friendship go. Your so attached to her because you have feelings for her and she has made it clear that she only wants to be your friend.
Personally I think you have to find yourself a girlfriend and I hate to tell you this but you have to let her go. She is not interested in you as a boyfriend and by you tagging along is not only going to cause you pain but it is going to damage your friendship with her.
Hopefully in the future when you are over her, maybe than you two can be friends.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Leave her alone. I do not wish to offend you but in all honesty it sounds as though you have caused her enough trouble already. Just leave her alone for now and let these fresh wounds heal. In a few months I think it will be alright to start a conversation with her again. Not a deep one, just something that shows her you still wish to be her friend again like old times.
I hope that helps.
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