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anonymous
writes: i cheated on my boyfriend of whom ive been with for 11 months. I go to college with the boy ive cheated on him with. i really like him alot but dont know what to do with my boyfriend i like him too...argh help
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reader, mitta  +, writes (21 December 2006):
Im not sure that its possible to be in love with two people at the same time, humans dont work that way. I think perhaps you are in love with one and attached to another in a different way, maybe more like a deep friendship. Maybe you feel more passionate about one and caring for the other. Either way you have to decide what is more important to you and who is more important.
No matter who you choose you have to tell your boyfriend what happened, if you care about him at all.
Take a piece of advice from me though, dont get too bogged down with it all at such a young age, make sure number one priority is having fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): I agree with Martini, you can't love your bloke or you wouldn't of even considered cheating! You are still young yet and shouldn't be thinking about settling down with one bloke. End it with the bf and go out there and have some fun. Then settle down later.
Take care and Merry Christmas
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): You don't like your boyfriend as much as you 'think' or say you do. Obviously, you don't love him, so I would think that the most prudent thing for you to do is dump the bf and go after the new fling. I think, in the 'long term' [chuckles], this may save the sane emotions of your bf.
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