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writes: hiya, im 15 and iv had sex with 4 boys! i last had sex with a boy about a month ago, in the last 2weeks iv been having realy bad discharge. the boy i had sex with is not my boyfriend and i know that hes had oral sex many times but never had sex i was the first person he had sleeped with. im worried that hes curt some thing off a nother girl that he has had oral sex with n passed it on to me! please can u write back and tel me what i can do and maybe why im havin such bad discharge.thankz x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2006): You shouldnt believe a guy when he says that hes only had sex once or never had intercourse only oral. You never know, and the point is, he's had sex and thats all that matters. He could get any std by just having oral. The nasty distarge you're having could be anything at this point. If I were you, I'd go get checked out before the problem gets worse!!! Seriously, this isnt something you should mess around with. You could effect your chances of fertility in the future. You dont need to be sleeping around with boys just because you want them to like you. They're just using you and are making a fool out of you and laughing and talking about you behind your back. I hope you go get checked out and that you think more and be safe next time.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (8 June 2006):
 You have bad discharge because you have had unprotected sex with four boys at 15! It should be treated by a doctor because you may have a condition that affects your future fertility. You also need to be hooked into cervical screening services because early sexual activity is a risk factor for cervical abnormalities and cancer. If you are embarrassed at going to your GP, there are plenty of family planning clinics out there where you can just queue up and see a doctor - take a friend if you are scared. Now once you have your 'problem' sorted out, it is time to address your second, potentially more important 'problem'. Why would you allow boys to have non-protected sex with you when they are not even your boyfriends? Do you not like yourself very much inside and think this is the only way to get their attention. You need to get this sorted out - I am all for women being sexually liberated, but it just sounds like you are being used for sex and if you don't sort out your relationships with men now then you will just wander through life doing the same thing. It is just such a waste of a life! Teen counsellors can help you with this, and empower you to say 'no' to unprotected sex.
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (8 June 2006):
 If you are getting a discharge that you don't normally get, it says something has changed, it could be nothing or something, don't wait around get yourself to an STD clinic where they will test you there and then (U.K.) or to a doctors that can test you for the most common causes of this kind of discharge.
Don't have sex again until you have been given the all clear and learn from this lesson and get yourself some condoms, don't have unprotected sex again unless you are in a committed relationship and using some other form of cotraception or you want a baby!
Good luck!
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reader, camille +, writes (8 June 2006):
 I'm sorry but I am going to be very blunt here as everyone else seems to be gently advising you. Go to the doctors and for goodness sake, stop having sex until you have the maturity to handle it! It's not just you, it's eberyone you sleep with plus everyone they have slept with and so it goes on. You must know the health risks involved and yet at 15 you have slept with 4 boys? It seems you're only concern is that you may have caught something? I'm worried you're having sex so freely without any thought of the consequence. You should tell your boyfriend because he may also have something because his 'girlfriend' cheated. Please stop being selfish, you are putting other people at risk too. Please be more aware and stop before you get worse than a discharge, not to mention getting pregnant.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (8 June 2006):
 Firstly, get yourself checked by a doctor.
As pointed out, it could be pretty normal, but better to be safe and sure.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (8 June 2006):
 It could just be thrush and that you havent caught anything and its pretty normal to get. Its unlikely that its the guy you have just slept with as its hard to get an sti if he hasnt slept with someone before and as just had oral sex with, so its quite possible that you could have caught something from a previous partner that has taken a while to show up, chlamydia is one that can be in the body for a long time before any symptoms are present if any, and it could have been anyone of the guys you have already slept with. However I advise going to your GUM clinice or GP, to get it looked at just in case its something a bit more nasty. With a discharge like that you cant be certain what it is without getting it looked at properly, it may be a case of some anitbitoics to get rid of it but YOU HAVE TO GET IT LOOKED AT! If it does turn out to be something like chlamydia then you will need to tell your previous partner, as if he didnt give it to you, you may have passed it to him and he will also need to be treatd as will the others you have slept with without protection. Be cautious in the future and use protection. Doesnt matter how much we trust someone until we know for sure they are STI and STD free we really shouldnt risk having unprotected sex. Also i dont think i need to remind you that you are below the age of consent anyway. You really should be taking care of yourself and not putting yourself at risk like this with unprotected sex.
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