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writes: I have been with my fiance for over two years and there's one fight we keep having over and over again: I feel like he loves sports more than me. When I asked him if he would be more excited about getting married to me or his team winning the Superbowl, he said "well, they're two different feelings." I was hurt and now I am questioning my decision to get married. Please help.
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reader, the_bettyboop_4you +, writes (31 January 2006):
 Look i wish my problems with my man would be about sports because i think ill be the happiest person in the whole world. Thank God that to you sports is a problem because it could be a lot worse.I agree with the person that said you should be greatfull that your problems are not about cheting or him abusing you,this is simple just learn the game and surprise him for the super bowl make him some dip ,chicken wings and some other stuff he likes and enjoy it with him and ask questions that you dont understand about the game and his going to love you moore for it,you will enjoy it very much i myself did it and i call all his friends to come over for the super bowl and i cook everybody chips in with something and we have a great time. Try it youll like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): Poor bloke - let him enjoy his sport. Men love sport and they love women but it is two different things. Learn the sport and watch with him or when he is watching his sport go out and do what you like to do. Honestly, when you read the stories on this website of women whose men look at porn all day or cheat on them or abuse them...do you feel a bit silly?Really, if this is your biggest problem with your man - you are pretty lucky. A few women would gladly trade being abused or cheated on with a man who watched "too much" football.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): I think you have to ask yourself if you deserve being second best? If you were told there was a guy just round the corner who would love you, make you happy and okay, everyone has their "thing", but he didn't make you feel inferior to it, which man would you choose? I was in the same position and I chose option 2 and believe me, I've never been happier - don't let yourself believe your only worth second best.x
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Learn the sport and then you can enjoy it together. Football is really fun to watch once you understand the game. If you can't lick 'em join 'em. Go Steelers!
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reader, married with 1 +, writes (26 January 2006):
i have the same problem i have been with my now husband for 3 years and sometimes it seems like he loves his football more than me. firstly it was okay as he is a season ticket holder and i said that id never stop him from going but now he has set up his own football team that play in a charity league on a sunday night so now my weekend consists of football even my 6 year old plays on a saturday morning.
if you love this guy then you can work around it, you decide to go out somewhere with a friend regularly on a night that you normally spend together and if he loves you he'll let you go out.
give him some of his own medicine.
he is right they are 2 different feelings as long as he doesn't leave you in the shadows.
we get on great and ive told my hubby that if i want to do something he cant stop me and he agrees.
love should be the most important thing and he can love both you and the superbowl.
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