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writes:i been with my bf for a long time and im not sure but i think he was recording us while was were having sex. and i reali dnt knw wat 2 do. whether to ask him why he done that, or tell my sister about it and if i do i reali dnt knw wat she will do to him as he reali dnt like him.plz help i need ur advice Reply to this Question
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 That's a big issue. I personally will not be happy about my boyfriend recording our bedroom business. I don't think it's legal to do so too.
I'm not sure what kind of relationship you have with him, but it might be better to find out for yourself instead of asking him. He might not admit it.
Another way is just not have sex with him and tell him you felt you're being watched. Maybe that'll teach him fast he should shut his camera off, but else he'll just suffer.
Good luck to you.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 You need to ask him. And if he did, you need to get hold of it, make sure he has no copy, and destroy it. Otherwise you'll end up on the internet at some point, which will do wonders for you if anyone who knows you sees it...
And if he did, and didn't ask you, that's a HUGE breach of trust. I would question whether you should be with a guy who does that.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 so your obviously uncomfortable with this idea. talk to him and ask him if he did record you, and if he did tell him that your not comfortable with that and that you want the tape.
some couples like doing that, but trust is a big issue with something like this, and if both parties arent completely at ease with the idea then they shouldnt do it.
he should never have disrespected you and your privacy like that.
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