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*herie270390
writes:Hi, my boyfriend has just slpit up with me of 3 years for someone else. We were engaged as well, now he has a new girlfirend, he said he just wants to stay friends and he does not have feelings for me no more. I just want him back soo much and just need some help on how to do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): hi theres no point in getting back with him if he just wants to be friends cos there's a good chance that he will cheat on you.
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reader, Dear Doris +, writes (29 January 2009):
Firstly sorry to hear about your break up...I know this is very painful...But if he is already with someone else does he actually deserve to have you back?? I know you feel like right now you cant breathe without him but in time it really does get better...as corny as it sounds time really is a healer...You deserve somebody who wants ,loves and respects you....and it doesnt sound like he is doing that right now. As for getting him back unfortunatley we cant make people feel what we want them too....if he wants you back he will come to you and who knows by then you may realise your own value and tell him where to go....but in the meantime dont chase him its not fair on yourself or the healing process and could end in more hurt and pain for you...have fun,be around friends take time out for you...make him realise what he is missing....one thing for sure he wont come back if its there ready waiting he wont respect that. Make time for you and find the reasons why it ended in first place. Take care :o)
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