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writes:We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we dont see each other, we just talk only on the phone. Would you believe it? We're almost 2 yrs but we had sex only once. He has no time for me (our relationship is secret) if he takes a day off he spends his time with his girlfriend. I feel that he loves me too because he calls me everyday. Every night we talk for almost 2 hours, but i feel bored because talking on the phone is not enough for me, i really dont understand him. Why he can not make time For me? Do you think he's just pretending that he loves me? You think he's just playing games with me? I want to break up with him, yeah i love him - but i really feel bored.Please help me.
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reader, Twirly  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Ooo you say you are both married and he also has a girlfriend, and he is seeing you?
Is that quite right or did you mean you and he are married and he has a girlfriend?
Either way it's no wonder that he doesn't have time and it sounds like you'd be better off without him.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 You are his spare spare. I think he is stringing you along just in case his girlfriend dumps him and he has an itch that needs scratching.
I wouldn't waste my time on him. You are better to spend those two hours a night that you talk to him talking to your husband and building a relationship that can satisfy all of your needs. If this is not possible, then get a divorce and find a man who is physically and emotionally available for you.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Hi
What a shame. You have latched onto someone that is looking for thrills in his spare time to brighten up his dull marriage.
He is rare in the fact he's not after sex, but he dupes in the way of offering words. It gains him attention. A confidence boost. You are 99% wasting your time on someone that will never/ want to, be able to offer you anymore than you have.
Cant really say more than that.
C xxxx
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reader, :):):) +, writes (9 May 2008):
He is playing games with you. You say you're both married and he also has a girlfriend? This clearly shows he is having his cake and eating it, knowing you and this other girlfriend wont say anything. If he had any type of respect for women, he wouldnt be treating you and this other lady as his 'bit on the side'
As difficult as it may seem, ignore his calls and do whats right. You have a husband at home who needs you which is more important than wasting you're time on this man, who has no intention of leaving his wife.
Good luck
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