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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have feelings for my best friend and he knows but the problem is I can't figure out if he feels the same way about me or not. He's kind of confusing because he's hinted around saying that he does and jokes around about how everyone's going to be right and we'll end up married but he'll never own up to anything. I don't know what to do because he has a girlfriend but still says things to me he shouldn't be saying when he's going with someone else like commenting on how I look or the not so innocent remarks.Oh and for some reason he's taken interest in what I wear which he never really has before. He get's jealous of other boys even if I just mention that I like them and keeps reminding me out of no where that I should wait until marriage although he knows that's not exactly my stand on things and it's hypocritical of him to say so. He's recently asked my cousin if I liked him even though he knows that I do and he's also recently asked me if I could tell him the difference between someone you love and someone you just go out with.I'm just wondering what should I do? I tend to think he likes me but then at times I'm not sure because he still claims to love his girlfriend.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 November 2009):
He has a girlfriend, so he's not yours to bother about. He can't order you what to do with male friends and such. If he was really interested, he'd be with you and not her. It's more likely that he sees you as a sister that anything. You do need to try and move on. It'll be hard, but he's not the guy for you.
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