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writes: This is gonna sound really stupid. I have been talkin to a girl on the net for approx 2 months, she is a friend of a friend, but we had never met face to face until yesterday. I bought her flowers and chocolates an a card sayin what i was feeling which is a lot. I dunno if its possible but i thought i was in love with her b4 meeting but now i feel that multiplied by thousands.She is gorgeous, and to me she's perfect, i wanna be te one who picks her up when she's down etc i really really think a lot of her, but i dunno if she feels the same way, we text and talk lots and we r planning to meet again next weekend, anyway, is it right for me to be feeling this much. Nothing has happened so far, and has been me that's ended up crying in every other relationship ive been in, i just hope it wont be me again, if she plans to meet again and text and talk often, this must mean she likes me doesn't it. Im sorry i'm not good at this relationship thing?? Help???
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): Don't worry I have learnt the hard way and yes, it is me ending up crying again. By the way im the 1 that posted the question, thanks for your answer perhaps i wasnt sweet enough
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (30 May 2006):
 Meet her and keep it casual - have fun but make sure you don't come on too strong or she might get a bit freaked out.
Make sure she knows you are keen but also allow yourself some more time to get to know her face to face!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Just dont come on too strong, or you might scare her away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): Agree with Phoebe,
Personally speaking, I've been in love with two people in my life, and I loved them right from the start, it was an instant thing for me.
You have to be careful though that you don't get hurt, because if the other person doesn't feel the same way, they will get freaked out if you sound too keen. In my case, I was lucky because they felt the same about me.
Like what Phoebe wrote, it was really nice reading your question. This girl is lucky to have met you, I just hope she wants the same thing as you, if she does - have a great relationship :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): You are not in love yet, dear...this is more of an intense crush...and unrelenting infatuation. A true love takes a long, long time to get established and it requires you to know everything possible there is about the other person. It's when there is a rock-solid foundation of trust, respect and unconditional acceptance of each other. And it's when you can be yourself, totally with the one you love. No games, no false pretenses...just totally you. You are not there yet. It's been only two months, hun. You have a long ways to go yet. I know you like her alot but don't base your 'whole being' on her. That might scare her off. That's a hell of a lot of 'pressure' to put on a poor unsuspecting girl. Be cool, be respectful, be nice...but use your head and slooooow down. Take it day by day. It sounds like she does like you, dear...so just have fun, laugh and enjoy the moments spent with her. If it's meant to be...love will come but get to know her as a friend, a confidante and someone you can learn to be yourself with. Just take it slow.
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reader, shania  +, writes (29 May 2006):
 You wear your heart on your sleeve.I wouldn't say you were totally in love with her because to really be in love with someone,you have to be actually dating her and getting to know her as a real person...faults and all.It does seem that she is interested in you because you are constantly in contact.Dont rush in though....take your time,if you meet again then take it slowly,you dont want to scare her off,unless she feels the same of course.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
it is completely normal what you are feeling. I can most definately say you are the most romantic person i have EVER had to answer a problem to. This girl will be lucky to have you. Listen to yourself! "If she wants to meet me again does this means she likes me?" Honestly, i know you're a guy but open your eyes. She has the option of meeting you again or telling you to get lost. And which one has she gone for? I think it's love, you lucky thing! Just be true, be romantic, be Faithful and be yourself.
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
xxx
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