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writes: If there's someone who you're totally in love with, your heart says go for it but your head says that the person is trouble, do you go for it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): I say go for it, even if you know they are trouble. Why? Cynically put, until you get hurt enough, you will never know why you should put your trust in your logic instead of purely from your heart.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
if you listen to your heart, there is a 50/50 percent chance of it either working or not working, if you listen to your head, you'll probably be forever wondering what would have happened if you had done this and done that. If your heart gets it wrong, so what? Go For It!!!!
Go With Your Heart, your gut instinct. Only you know what's truly best for you.
Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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reader, bonym +, writes (29 May 2006):
 Yes I know harp on about my "heart" this and my "heart" that
I mean to insert PEOPLE in between know and harp!!! Sorry. xXx
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reader, bonym +, writes (29 May 2006):
Listen to your head my friend. Your heart i.e your body probably is saying yes because of the thrill and the excitement but God gave us a mind and a brain for a reason. Yes I know harp on about my "heart" this and my "heart" that but I think its a case of your emotions saying this, domt listen to them. Use your head girl, this is a warning. If your head is saying its a no go area, LISTEN to it. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): I agree with the girls, that "warning" feeling in your head is there for a reason!
Use your head, it will look after you, your heart will not! :)
But as you are "totally in love" with this person already, I am guessing perhaps it's too late to listen to your head?? Am I right? :) Try and address the concerns your mind is giving you right away - don't let love take over because the more time you spend with someone, the harder it is to break free. Good luck:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): I cannot impress this upon you enough...Use your head! You will never, ever regret it. Keep your sensibilities about you and learn to 'discern' whether a person is good for you by watching their behaviours. Think smart, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006): this is probably going to be an unpopular piece of advice but i would say 100% go with your head. this is from experience.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (29 May 2006):
 You must be one of the smart women in the world to ask this question. Some girls blindly follow their 'heart' or hormones and never ask the question should I?
Listen to your head!!!!
Your heart runs on hormones. Chemical rushes of adrenaline and endorphins encouraging you to propagate the species.
When you are in a committed relationship it is those same hormones that encourage you to cheat (physically or emotionally).
Bravo to you!! Keep asking yourself the hard questions, and follow your head.
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