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I sometimes believe I am over him, but then I think about him and know I'm not...will he ever come back?

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Question - (12 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy and I have been together for a while and I really love him. We weren't exactly "together" but he was always saying we'd be in a relationship and he treated me right. I don't know how to deal with my emotions now, I'm trying so hard to just fight it, and tell myself that i'm not in love with him. However that's not really working. He has a new girlfriend at the moment, and she's really pretty. :(.

We share much in common though, but our astrology matches show we aren't compatible. I don't know if he'll ever realize that I gave him everything I could just so I could make him happy, but he didn't appreciate it. I hope he'll come back.

Please don't tell me to just forget him. I just can't, it's very simple. I feel like i'm over him but then i think about it and I'm not. I really miss him and the way he used to always be. Do you think He'll ever realize it and come back to me?

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2010):

kayla20 agony auntseems to me like he has moved on with his life having a new girlfriend his not going to be thinking about you.getting over someone takes alot of time and occasionally you will sit there and think about him and miss him but that goes away in time.you need to look at the reality of the situation he has moved on and will never see how you tried to make him happy his not thinking about you anymore or considering your feelings his just thinking about himself and his new relationship.everyone goes through what you are at the moment but allow yourself time to think about yourself and making yourself feel happy being single and then eventually you will meet someone who is more compatible for you and yourl be sitting there thinking why did i waste my time waiting for him when i have found someone alot better

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