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writes: I am losing interest with my four year relationship. Our relationship is not growing AT ALL. I'm bored and starting to look in other directions but I dont have the heart to pursue or to even break up with him. He has my car, coaches my kids team... but I just don't feel the same about him even though my kids love him. they have already been through a divorce and fell in love with my boyfriend. But he does nothing for me. Nothing means nothing. All we have is great sex. That can be with anyone right. So, I've be complexing should I let him go. (after basketball season?) I know he feels me slipping away. I CRIES every day, which is driving me NUTS!!! He is 10 yrs older than me and doesn't act it at all. No responsiblity, has drove my car for a year, and hasn;t paid me a dime for it (my fault) when we lived together I got stuck with all the bills, had to quit college b/c he wouldn't help out with the kids. But the kids love him, I do to, but I want a real MAN!!Somebody pray for me!!! The neighbor really likes me???
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reader, malaysianfeet +, writes (24 January 2006):
Have you had on any occasion counselling session(s) where a professional can help you both understand the REAL issue(s)? He needs professional help. He needs to understand that responsibility is like a pregnant lady. There are no half pregnant ladies. Responsibility is wholesome, not 'half-some'. Sex is great with him? The way people make love can tell you more about them than any other searching analysis. Sex is good with many but great with a few. You have a cross road here. Choose wisely.Prem.
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