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writes:So heres the thing i have a gay friend pritty much tried for years to convince me im "bi" or maybe even "gay" i mean my n my friend goofed around and went skinny dipping but i couldint even stand the thought of looking and thier ass hell in highschool i didnt take a s hower after class becasue i thought it was emencly disturbing however they were all ok with this?. ive had a past were outta sexual experimenting at a very young age ive had some to me "awkward encounters" were its left me scard for life im just confused im 19 almost 20 why the hell do i even have a doubt?. im suffering from some pritty heavy anxiety aswell i mean the most "gay" thought ive had was hey dudes with long hair look pritty bad ass but i still find myself totally wraped up in a pritty girl like im single and have been for over a year but i was with a girl for over 3 and was sexually active with her almost every weekend so really why am i questioning myself?. whats going on ?. its it becasue of my past that the thought is poping up and cofuseing me am i legitly gay?. am i bi? i mean ive done all kinds of research all day long and im even having anxiety about the possible thought of being gay.i dont know what to do im soo confused and like i cant just let it ride out to wait and see like i think i could actually lose sleep over this and i have lost one night already and probibly about to go on my second :/ like my gay friend todl me think of kissing another guy what do you think?. i said i dont think much of it at all to be honest.....he said well sucking on a guy?. i said its revolting he said hmmmm well i cant pin point you i mean i know i responded to those things like that but are my defences up to high to even tell or whats goign on if anyone can help it would be greatly appreciate it i appreciate your time and consideration.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Thank for the help guys i appreciate it for some reason tho my damn mind wont stop wondering like wtf?. serisouly i was up until 2:00 a.m. it droveme nuts i had to keep saying to myself im definatly NOT gay definatly not and even all day today i mean iam suffering from bad anxiety anyways so maybe thats why?. im possibly more prone to worrie about stupid meaningless thing like blah i can tell you one thing is for sure i do NOT want to be gay i WANT to be married to a very nice beautiful woman that i can wake to every morrning and be happy with not two peas and a pod like honestly how do i stop these stupid thoughts?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Thanks guys... the only other concern i have is that i have to keep telling myself im NOT GAY its rediclous i gusse this guy has caught me at a vonerable poin tin my life were im suffering from anxiety is that possibly why iam having this much trouble i mean this is rediclous if a girl were to walk in my room naked of cour instant turn on i dont doubt that one bit lol sorry for being graphic its just rediculous i spet until 2:00a.m worrieing about wonderign how parent would take it if i was and iam pritty fed up you guys are right i need to ditch him not cause hes gay but becasue hes screwing with me and i cant handle that at this point in my life.......
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 This gay friend is playing mind games and messing with your head. Whether hes gay or not isnt the issue. Hes just not a very nice person and you need to drop him from your life. He is not being a friend to you. If the thought of being with a guy turns your stomach that means you are definately not gay, so stop worrying about it. Just steer well clear of the gay guy. He has massive issues and hes toxic.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Your not gay.. your gay friend is messing with your head because he fancies you and wants you.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 your gay friend is trying to drag you to the dark side. your not gay you like girls, get a new friend one thats not gay
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