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writes:im only 13 years old.and i met a 14 year old (bradley) last year in september.oddly enough the way i met him was really weird. almost by fate, but i dont wanna drag in another story. but the first time i saw bradley.... i knew that there would be a future somehow with us. long story short-i really really liked him and i know that he likes me. through him i met my new best friend, katie. shes 16 years old but we are besties.i told her that i liked him, but at the time they were dating. they dated but they kept it a secret for....a good enough reason to keep it a secret..anyway they dated and then one thing led to another and they had sex 3 times (while they dated)(btw. he was a really really big christian. so much that the first night they did he criieedd.). and they broke up..she told me the whole story one night.and everything was weird after that.then the next thing i know shes telling me that they had sex.....again... they had "close calls" before but that night they had sex.so it adds up to 4 and katies like crying cause bradleys breakin her heart. but thats a veryyyy long story. so by then of course i dont know what to do or say.then one night we are talkin and shes dating this dude we met at the skating rink, calvin.ha, they were actually engaged.....but....idk..and she told me that there was no feeling left for bradley. that he liked me a WHOLE lot.and i should go for him, because i liked him too.this week katie and bradley had sex 3 or 4 more times while she is still engaged to calvin. so it went from 4 to 7or 8..and she and calvin had sex 6 times...actually after tonite 7. the biggest thing is that bradley has asked me to come to his house like every day this past week. and one day i couldnt come they had sex. then one day i DID come they had sex-2times.i could write even more (as if i havnt written enough) about how much he acted like he cared about me. i know it sounds like another stupid girl that is just so madley in love that they think hes different. but when i say that this guy is different...he is. he looks straight to a girls heart and personality. so hes a one of a kind.....but he is also my best friend. and he knows i like him. i know he likes me. idk how to deal with this. cause im FINISHED with having to deal with problems that people my age DONT deal with. this is just one of the many things that are messed up. but what should i do...i dont think i can tell bradley i know. he took an oath. before god! that if she told anybody about this he would kill himself.especially me. she said he deffinatley would if he knew that i know. since he likes me(...uhhh..i thought liked)so right now. this one issue has katies heart broken, katie cheating on calvin with bradley, my heart breakin because i thought he liked me,me 2faced because i cant tell or let him know that i know all of this, suicide because i know if he finds out that i know. he will.....i dont know what to do...this is prob. really confusing but i cant think of an easier way to write it. please. pleaasseee help me
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 June 2010):
 wierd tell katie to stop cheating on calvin. tell bradley you like him and you kno about everything according to katie, his side might be diffrent katie doesnt seem like a friend why would she sleep with a guy she knows you like. Stop worrying about these other people look out for your self and he wont kill himself because then he could never sleep with you or katie so dont worry about that. she just told you that so you wouldnt tell him btw if you stick your tooth under your pillow some guy in a fairy costume will come and replace it with a nickel hey its a recession
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