A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:So I like this guy we attend same coaching classes he blushes around me and is always smiley he is quite shy I sent him a love letter and kept it secretly in his bag I told him to msg him if me like me through the love letter but he hasn't msged yet how should I knoe if he has read it we don't get time to talk to each other should I get his number and msg him be a I kept love letter in a book and that book is with him it's been 1 day and there is no reaction from his side he smiled today to himself when I entered the class so what should I do now should i consider it a no from him or msg him
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, KeW  +, writes (4 July 2019):
 Hello OP,It was very brave of you to give him a love letter, but it’s not often a wise decision until you are in a relationship with each other, as it can scare people off or be embarrassing for you if they don’t feel the same. However, it took courage, so now it’s up to him! Give him some time to process your letter and decide how he feels about it. It would be good to take things slowly, even if he does say he likes you to, as it’s easy to get carried away when you like somebody and do things that you’ll possibly regret later. Good friendships and relationships take time and usually develop gradually because rushing can cause problems.A love letter is quite intimidating if you’re not in a relationship, so it would be worth cooling down what you say to him, to avoid your feelings running away with you. Start a conversation so you can build a friendship with this boy and see if you actually have things in common :-)Try to be patient. I don’t think you should send him any more letters or messages, as this will likely make him see you as desperate and he may manipulate you because of that. You’ve made your move, so give him a few days to make his. If he doesn’t, then it would be good to start moving on from your crush.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2019): Maybe he just recently found it; and hasn't had the nerve to respond just yet. If he smiled, he read the letter. Now it's his turn to say something. If he doesn't, he may be too shy; but don't send him another love letter. One is enough. Just try to start a conversation to break the ice.
...............................
|
