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anonymous
writes:I slept naked with my boyfriend..How ever he was clothed..He kissed me all over..After this I'm really guilty for what i did:(:(I am not even talking to him properly..what do i do in this situation???I'm having sleepless nights cuz of this.He also suckedmy breasts.will this lead to any problem??I also got a Lil bleeding after he inserted his finger n i had a orgasm..He tells nuhting's gonna happen but I'm really scared..Plz advice me..I'm really scared n I've decided not to repeat this again..!!!:(:(:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Ms. Anonymous India is a country filled with Catholics,Protestants,Baptists,Hindus,Muslims,Buddhists,Jains.You name a religion we have it.
Now Poster, You will be coming in a few years on DearCupid asking if its possible to get a hymen via surgery.If you are not going to get married to the same guy what would you tell your husband.Go to a gynecologist,check if you have a hymen.India has become modern in many ways.Sadly,some things never change.You would be wise if you never repeat it again.Your boyfriend will deny it a million times but he will lose respect for you since you did all this before marriage.An average Indian Male thinks like that.Sis!Wake up and run in the opposite direction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): i think this is a religious situation. are you a muslim?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I'm not sure what you are worried about here? You cannot get pregnant nor can you get any STD's from doing this so health wise, nothing can happen to you.
If you were not comfortable with what you did then explain this to your boyfriend, you should only start being sexually active when you feel ready. You havent lost your virginity by doing this dont worry, you can only lose your virginity through penetration.
Just tell your boyfriend to slow things down and if he loves you and respects you he will have no problems.
I hope this helps!
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I take ityou are a virgin, no? This would be the reason you had bleeding. That would be normal. What exactly are you worried about? You can't get pregnant by doing what the pair of you did. In fact, you can't really catch an STD doing what you guys did either. So, the only thing that you might be worried about is the emotional side of it. Are you worried about how he feels about you now? If I knew what was worrying you, I think I could better answer your question.
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