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writes:Wooooooo! I think i'm majorly crushin' on my Band Teach! That's just akward! And since he's my Arts and Hummaities, Band, Music Theroy, Sunday School Teacher I pretty much see him ALL THE TIME. I don't really know why I sorta like him, though. He's not like sexy or anything, but i think he's kinda cute.... sort of. I see him and my heart kinda speeds up. There i sjust something about him that fasinates me. I just love him! We have so much in common that it's really scary. We are like twins! But, when i look at him i don't see a best friend or a taecher i see him as the most awesomest person i have ever met. That is just really werid. And it seems like that he thinks alot of me.(Meaning that he likes me alot) He lets me do things he won't let the other band kids. Some of the thing we do together is really wrong as a teacher but as a band teacher it's okay. Like he'll drive me to chruch. We talk really easily. He smiles at me alot. Well i smile at him too much also... but you know it's kinda a feeling that you have no controll of. We stop in the hall to say hi, and i usally find myself running to my next class. When he has Lunchroom Duty, he always stands as close to my table he can without being noticed. And one day he was talking to a teacher and i walked by and he stoped their convo and said "Heyyy! Taylor!! I'm glad you're here today!!" and stared at me till i was out of his sight. When we talk, we always look into each others eyes. And he hugs ALL THE BAND KIDS, but when he hugs me it's a full hug, not a one-sided one. I wrap my arms around him, and i lay my head on him. We laugh, and we let go, and he kisses me on the head and says "Are you raedy to play?!" I say yea and get my flute. I think we both kinda have small tiny crushes on each other. We do you DearCupiders think??
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reader, clara123  +, writes (10 March 2009):
You have squeezed the juice dry out of this one. Move on and lets help you with something else.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 March 2009):
Hey, saw you asking this last week and on the articles to.
You seem to know that this is just a crush, you know it's never going to happen and you understand why it has happened.
I'm not entirely sure what you hope to achieve by getting even more of the same advice.
I would get someone to have a word with him about the hugging and eye contact though. I mean surely he's not stupid enough not to realise how naive teenaged girls are? It's only going to take one person like you to try and take one of those hugs further and then to make a false accusation when she gets rejected and BAM his career is ruined forever and he gets beaten up by a bunch of dads.
He's playing with fire here.
Young girls can't control their feelings and he is just playing with them.
Talk to your mum or a friend's mum and tell them that he hugs you all and you are crushing on him and he's giving misleading signals.
Then they can get in there and tell him to be a LOT more careful before it's too late and he's in the local newspaper as a suspected rapist.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I think you have posted this once too often now! And you have written an article on the same issue!
Come on it's really getting boring now, you've had so much advise on this issue.
You know it's wrong!
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