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writes: I broke up with my ex girlfriend of 3 years towards the end of October last year(complicated reasons). After we broke up she stated that she still thought I was the one. A month or so after we broke up, she admitted that everytime we speak, she cries because she still has feelings for me.I left things for a while until I realised over Christmas that I still loved her and wanted to be with her. I told her this last week, and she didn't want to know. She said that I didn't love her I just thought I did. She also said that she didn't love me anymore, despite that fact that only a few weeks previous, she was crying everytime we spoke. When we spoke she admitted that she still has pictures of us together, doing coupley(?) things together (one is even of us both kissing) on her bedroom wall, and in her mum and dad's living room.I still really love her, and want to know whether or not there is any chance of us getting back together? When we were together, things were perfect. I made a stupid mistake in breaking up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, thanks for your responses.
I have been in contact with my ex girlfriend recently. A lot of my stuff is still at her house, so we have been making arrangements for me to collect it.
At first I stated that I just wanted to meet her at the train station and get my stuff back. However, she suggested that I stay a bit longer, and we go for lunch together (must admit, I am really pleased she suggested this).
Not really sure how things are going to go. Think I might ask her about her feelings towards me (especially regarding photos of us. Literally every woman I know who I have asked about this said that thy wouldn't keep photos on their wall unless they still had feelings fo their ex). Although I don't want to appear too pushy.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (28 January 2006):
 Nothing is ever over, and it sounds like you two still have a lot of love for each other. I feel that life is too precious not to tell people what you are thinking and feeling. They could be gone tomorrow, and you will only live with regret. From what you say, it sounds like you are both ready to try again, and that you appreciate what you had together.
I think your choice to break up was a good thing, because now you see what a good relationship you had. The only question I have for you is what are you waiting for? You know what you want, and it sounds like she wants you, your wasting time reading my letter.
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reader, Superted +, writes (27 January 2006):
Im in a similar boat to yourself. We broke up but stayed best friends. I figured it was best as i still loved her. We got back together again and split up again. Because i made such a massive effort as a friend, she now thinks we are better friends than lovers! go figure. Now im giving it time and want her to do the running. You never know a good thing until its gone!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (27 January 2006):
 It really is a shame that some times we don't realize what we really have until we screw it all up. There is always hope when communication is still there, because she still talks to you that mens that there are some kinds of feelings present, so maybe it is the kind you want her to have for you. She may be having a hard time trusting you with her heart after you broke it before. If I were you I would try to stay in contact and make it a point to let her know how much you care and that you plan on being there for her for the long haul, hopefully she will see that you are serious about your feelings and will want to try again with you. Good luck.
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