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I want to ask her out but I don't know if she's bi or gay

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Question - (27 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

PLEASE PLEASE don't judge or whatever, if you don't agree with any of this kinda thing just don't read. Thanks :)

I'm 17 and I'm bisexual (Although some people may argue I'm bi-curious as I've never had a girlfriend and I'm a teenager) but that's besides the point because I find girls attractive and I've had a few experiences with girls, so that's what matters for this at the moment.

I currently like two girls, both of which are unreachable. The first is also bi and she has admitted to liking me too but she's in a committed relationship with another guy and the second, as far as I'm aware is straight.

However this is where my problem lies. The second girl, has never had a boyfriend or girlfriend and when I asked her if she had problems with gays/lesbians/bisexuals she said no. But it got me thinking, if she's never had a boyfriend, she could possibly be anything. When we were hanging out the other day I was obviously flirting with her and I THINK she was flirting back but I'm not that good at picking up on when people are flirting with me or not so I'm not so sure.

I wanna ask her out on a date or something and if she was a boy I would but considering she's a girl and I don't even know if she's into other girls it makes this a million times harder. I also don't wanna ask her if she's into girls because I don't want to scare her away.

Any advice would be appreciated, and I know people are going to tell me to ask her but like I've said I really don't want to scare her away and lose her as a friend.

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