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*ir.Byron
writes:I'm nearly 17 and there is this girl I got a crush on.I see her every Sunday in a youth bible group and afterwards in church. She knows me but not personally. I don't know what to do because I'm afraid of rejection. could someone help me with this?Thanks
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 If you're always afraid of being rejected, you will never get your girl. Any girl. You need to ask her.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (27 September 2007):
 it's better to regret asking her rather than not taking the chance at all.
she might say no but then think about if she says yes? you need to be positive and think positive, thinking negative won't do you any good!!!
take the chance and good luck!!
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reader, Nogoodbyes  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 Why don't you try and get to know her properly just as friends first? That way you can see if you'd want to take things further, also she will be able to make an informed decision about you if you decide to ask her out. Try not to be scared of rejection, I know it's scary but you need to put yourself out there in order to get noticed. Just be yourself. Hope this is of some help to you. :)
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (26 September 2007):
 The fear of rejection is a downfall of many people, teens especially. I have the same fear, so first of all, I feel your pain. :)
At least she knows who you are, so that's a start. Start off small. Sit next to her in your Bible group, make eye contact, see how she responds. Crack a joke, something to make her laugh. Just be yourself, be friendly, and if it's meant to be, it will most definitely happen, just maybe not the way you suspect it will. Good luck!
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