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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Change friends. Why do they keep butting into your business, and saying mean things if they know it bothers you ?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2010):
Tell your friends to 'sod off'. My bet is there's jealously here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Oh man! Youre friends are totally jealous! Forget them...who cares what they think, seriously? Its all about you and your girl and that should be private relationship. They should respect that and not make comments. Youre the winner here! Keep this lady, have fun, and ignore anything adverse that comes your way. In the end, you are happy and thats what matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Ignore them.
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reader, whiteelephant  +, writes (16 October 2010):
do they have gfs? guys are gonna give each other shit. you just gotta deal with it and dish it back
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Just tell your friends you like her the way she is and that is enough for you, and ask them why they are going on like this. Could be they have no girlfriends themselves and are jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): To be blunt; Tell your friends to go F*** themselves. Stand up and be proud of yourself sir, you are a gentleman.
Friends will always be around, love however is something worth defending, when you find you have it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): It doesn't matter what they think, you're the one dating her not them. If you find her attractive then that's all that matters. That being said, these people obviously aren't real friends or they'd never say such a spiteful thing. Get some real friends.
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