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anonymous
writes:I saw my friend getting a spanking and now I'm having fantasies about being spanked ... wtf is going on?? She's a bit younger than me but we're good friends and we're always in each others houses. Anyway, a few days ago I went round hers and as usual I just went round the back. I tend to go straight in through the kitchen then straight upstairs to her room.However, when I opened the backdoor, I could see my friend in the lounge getting whacked across her bottom with a belt. I was shocked, I didn't say anything and just backed straight out and left. I haven't even brought it up with her since, even though she came over later on the same dayBut and it's a big but! ...as shocking as this may sound, it actually left me feeling a little turned on. Trouble is now I can't get it out of my mind and want to feel what it's like. Is this weird? I'm even tempted to do some things to really piss my parents off in the hope I get the same. It's silly really because I haven't been smacked for years.God, I hope this doesn't sound too weird; any help would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): It is quite common at your age to find certain things spark an arousal. It is just your hormones racing around! Things will settle as you get older and you will learn what you do or dont like. I wouldnt upset your parents on purpose in hopes they will spank you. Trying to make them unwittingly do things to you that have a sexual purpose is a little messed up, so i would strongly advise you against doing anything like that. It could also leave you with even more of an issue if you started incorporating your mother or father into your fantasy.As for your friend. Was the spanking consensual or was she being abused? I dont know about the US but in the UK that sort of thing would end in a court case if she was under 16 or the beating was unconsensual. I would advise you not to follow the advice given. Tricking someone into performing things of that nature is very wrong.What you saw sparked a response, that is fairly normal. Acting on it is entirely up to you but it is an area that i would steer away from for now, given your age and inexperience. Maybe put it on a back burner for when you are a little older.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (19 January 2012):
If she's a really good friend, someone you could really rely upon to keep your secrets, you could tell her what you saw and ask her to do it to you. You don't have to say that it turned you on, just that you felt bad for her and wanted to feel what she felt.
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reader, Jayceex  +, writes (19 January 2012):
It isn't too weird actually, fantasy's are fantasy's.
Everyone has fantasy's about things, and most of them are better kept inside our imagination.
Fantasizing cant hurt, no matter what it is (:
But most things are better kept fantasizing about imo
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 Spanking is a common sexual fantatsy. Although you are still young and i would not go acting on this at your age, it is still very normal for you to begin to learn what turns you on or interests you.
I also wouldnt suggest annoying your parents on purpose as you do not want to cause problems between you and them for no reason.
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