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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I was with my boyfriend for a couple of years until we broke up a few months ago, and he is 98% everything I want in a guy. I haven't been particularly trying to get over him and we've become a lot closer again recently. I tend to live by the quote 'If you never try, you'll never know.' I keep thinking I should try and forget him, but he's everywhere, so I can't really. I just keep telling myself that if I give in, I could have lost the potential chance that I could get back with him and have an amazing future. I just can't imagine finding anyone as good as him. I just don't know whether I should be persistent and hope that he could fall for me again, and keep trying because if I don't I'll never know what could have been, or do I give up the love of my life so far? I've also become a lot more introverted recently and I find it really difficult bonding with new people, so I'm scared I won't be able to get to know new people when I go to college in September. I also started getting close to this guy, but in the end basically sussed that he wasn't interested, which really knocked my confidence. I guess I'm scared he is my only hope and I could be throwing him away. Help?
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