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writes: im 16 and this other 16 year old boy fancies me. hes kinda a friend. we talk but we r not like close friends. well he told my boy mate that he fancies me and my boy mate told me.i said to my boy mate i probably would go out wiv him and i did fancy him. that was 3 days ago.now im not sure i fancy him anymore for some reason! im really confused.the boy that fancies me told my boy mate to ask me out for him so he did.now i just cant decide whether i want to go out with him! and i feel guilty cos im kinda stringing him along not telling him the answer so i really need to make up my mind by 2morrow!help? my boy mate thinks i should go out wiv him and just give it a try and if i dont like it then i can just dump him.shall i do this or what?and is this really mean of me that i havent told him the answer yet? when its been about a day or 2 since he asked me out? Reply to this Question
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reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (29 December 2006):
 Ok... so I don't think you should go out with this guy. Its not fair to mess him around and just dump him if it doesn't suit you, it would be better just to leave it. And it doesn't really matter that you left it this long to tell him, coz you were just trying to make up your mind.
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reader, violentviolet  +, writes (23 December 2006):
 I'd say you regret the things that you don't do way more than the things that you do. Let this guy know that you want to give it a try, but you want to take things really slowly so you can work out how you feel. Make sure he knows where he stands. Then give it a try, go on a few dates and that way you can really work out what you want.
Good luck
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reader, girlwithproblems +, writes (18 December 2006):
 i was in the sorta same situation. and i went along with it and it really broke the boys heart. You either love him or you don't it's hard to say no to him but you sound like you wouldn't like spending time together as boyfriend and girlfriend. i really think u should tell him what u think it would just be cruel if u didn't ! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): If you are unsure, take some time out on your own- maybe in your bedroom- and sort out your feelings. Picture his face. Do you feel anything for him? If not, make a list of the pros and cons about having a relationship with the boy. Think about it, put it down on paper, view the options, and if you still dont know the answer, confess to him that you arent completely sure. Have a talk with him and see how you feel at the end of it.
After all, it's your choice!
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