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writes: My family is beyond crazy... im 15 and i am dating a 25 year old (who was once married to my cuzin) and they found out. ya i kno its a little crazy but anyways.... But now i have absolutely no privacy or trust. i understand the fact that they don't trust me, but i was told (BY MY OWN MOTHER) that they've had a private investigator on me for the past 6 months! my computer and phone line are bugged. and the only time i'm allowed to have the door closed in any room i'm in is to go to the bathroom or shower! i'm also never aloud home alone. i think this is beyond ridiculous. i also found out that my aunt and mother had been reading my diary. they also no some crazy facts that only friends in school would know. do you think there sending people in my school to spy on me? what should i do about the privacy defiency? i think i'm gonna go nuts!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 Hi There,
You're family is not the only one who is crazy here. You are 15, and dating a man that used to be you in-law. You are a minor, and they have every right to keep you safe from yourself...yes, they may be taking it too far, I agree. However, you turned on your family when you started to date a man that used to be your inlaw. You were the first to betray the family loyality. It is a sign that you make bad choices for yourself, and if you were my child, I beleive that I would have taken away lots of your privacy too. Privacy and freedom come with a price, and you acted in a way that makes their trust in you very shaky. Firstly, stop dating your ex-inlaw. Then, start working to get thier trust back. Lastly stop writing in a diary. You admit that dating a man twice your age, that you used to be related to is crazy, so accept some of the responsibility of the consequences of your actions.
-Frank B Kermit
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