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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and in the first few months i used to go out and get drunk with mates. i then found out my boyfriend kissed a girl so i fort id get revenge and i kissed 3 guys which he never found out about. a year has gone past now and i am so in love with my boyfriend that this memory of wen i kised 3 guys keeps poping in my head because i realy love him now! shall i keep this to myself and forget it or tell him? i dont no how to tell him if i need to? is it nessecary to tell him if it ws only the first month of us going out or if no1 nos then shud i just keep it to myself? please reply..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for all your replies i told him.. and i told him how much it keeps popping in my head now tht i love him so much. he got really angry with me and said he can never trust me but then admitted to kissing the girl he kissed twice. i said we were both as bad as eachother and to let it pass and i think we are all good now. i know that i wont ever do anything like that ever again he is my life and now i just want him to trust me again. he nearly split up with me last night, it was the worst night of my life until we made up and nearly happy. i regreted telling him at first but now i have a clear head. thanks xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): I think you should tell. Otherwise, if you two keep going and develop a real serious relationship or marriage, then you are lying to him. I don't agree with the ones saying to keep it to yourself. It is his business, especially since it is on your mind all the time. However, it was in the beginning of your dating, so I don't think it is cheating, and he won't neither. Come clean, then move forward with your relationship with him and these 'bad' thoughts will be purged from your mind forever.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Why do you feel the need to rock the boat? If this amount of time has gone by and he hasnt found out then why tell him now. Forget it and enjoy all you two have.take carexxx
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reader, LULU'S Advice +, writes (20 December 2007):
 If this is affecting your relationship then perhaps you ought to come clean and tell him.I don't think it is such a serious thing,you had only been going out a month and as you say he kissed another girl.I think you should put it in the past and get on with being happy with the man you love. xx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 December 2007):
 DON'T TELL HIM. This is nothing, vapor, fairy dust. All of this happen in the very beginning of your relationship BEFORE you were totally committed to him. The really important thing is that you love him and would never want to hurt him now. To tell him would only hurt him and jeopardize your relationship. Eat up your guilt over this, swallow it and don't look back. You love him now, and there is nothing to be forgiven.
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reader, xcore_123  +, writes (20 December 2007):
If it is really eating you away like this TELL HIM and tell him how sincere you are about him and how angry it makes just thinking of him with anotehr girl and how much you appreciate him and never want to lose him
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): Dont tell him but don't do it again
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