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writes:This is probably a weird question.. well what it is is i want to try anal.. the other day me and my boyfriend attempted to do it but it hurt too much and 'messy stuff' you know what i mean was on his penis.. is this normal because i was sooo embarrassed. Also how do you clean that area so this doesnt happen? Pleeeeaase help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sailor__67  +, writes (22 December 2008):
This is probably a weird answer, but I gave up caring what the straight-laced vanilla moral majority thought police decreed as "normal" a long time ago...You may be embarrassed by the unanticipated events, don't take for granted your boyfriend was though...A similar thing happened to my girlfriend and I and I found it quite erotic.We are not hermetically sealed beings, designed to live in a sterile world. All your bodily components and functions are part of your natural being and thereby beautiful and intollerably sexy to well adjusted man.
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reader, stacey.m06 +, writes (16 February 2007):
i think the best time to do this is when your completely relaxed. try having a nice meal and maybe a glass of wine. and when you make it up to the bedroom. encourage him to give you a sexi massage with lots of relaxing oils. the ones from body shop work a treat. when you think you are ready then make sure you use plenty of lubrication the water based one is the best. if you find the pain to hard to bare then i always find that if i use my vibrator to penetrate my clitoris and believe me it does take your mind off it. if your not into toys then put your partners hand down there. and thanks to the g-spot in your bottom and the clitoral stimulation you will have an amazing orgasm. neither of you will be bothered if their is any mess!! good luck hun xx
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reader, honeyross +, writes (16 February 2007):
 A bit of 'messy stuff' is inevitable when you're having anal - nothing to be embarrassed about. Your could try turning the lights down low and using a condom so he doesn't have to clean himself after. Alternatively you could have an anal douche before - using the shower attachment up there and then releasing the water into the toilet, but it's a bit of a passion killer etc.The first couple of times are a bit sore, so you'll need lots of lubricant and you'll need to relax down there and get him to be extra slow and gentle. Get him to pull out when it gets sore and then re-enter a few seconds later. This sometimes helps.
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