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writes:Ok guys....i have been with this site for 3 months now, with a huge issue that, should I have not discovered this site. I think I would be crazy and lost my mind.......Thanks to your meditating advices and your warmness.... However since i am letting go and giving up on my ex, ( which is the reason why i joined the sight) I want to write to him and express how i feel inside and i want to do it politely.... I really care about him even though he broke up with me..... I don't want him back but I feel like i need to express my heart and what i went through and to also express to him that i am getting over him..... just to share a bit of my heart.....I was thinking if sending him the responses I got from this site would be a good idea. I want him to read them through, for they make a lot of sense... to me and hopefully to him as well.... he will get to understand what i went through. The thing is he is not an expressive person and i find it hard to express myself to him, for he would rather avoid the subject.... I really want to introduce this site to him.... do u think its a wise move??
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (16 February 2007):
Well, as long as your sure he wont think your doing it just to get him back...or make him feel bad for leaveing you. But yes, introduce him to the site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): its not too bad of a idea, i had a major issue that my husband failed to see and understand, and bringing him to this site and showing him what the agony aunts had to say really opened up his eyes, realizing that he was wrong and its not to late to change. this site can help both couples here and u should take him to the site. maybe he himself will use it too and u will see what a difference it makes
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reader, baybee_shiv_x  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 yes, this site has helped you and many others mabey he needs a helping hand like you did , he needs to know how you felt and mabey just mabey he felt the same and needed to express himself to a person he has never met, i think you should express your feelings to him and tell him how he made you feel and how much he hurt you , this is a healthy way to express yourself and if he just says no and turns away well at least you tryed the worst thing he can do is say no , so give it a go people cant hold grudges forever and if he goes in a little tandtrom with you he will come round in the end best of luck x
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