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writes:This is a bit long, sorry.So, there's this girl I know, and I really, -really- like her.We first started talking in one of our classes that was had together for half a school year. So each day, for a period in the day, we would sit together and talk.She never seemed to be annoyed by me, and always talked with me.I tell my friends I like her, yadda yadda, but never actually ask her out.Fast forward to a few weeks after school is over. A few of my friends went to a girl's party (I'm not friends with that girl) and she was there. She went up to one of my friends and asked him "When is (insert my name here) going to ask me out?" and my friend didn't respond. So, after the party, he tells me this.I feel awesome, and I can't wait until I can see her again. My friend tells me she'll be at the carnival on Friday, and I can't wait.Now, we get to the carnival, and bam, there she is, as beautiful as ever. Here's where it goes wrong however. She is -always- with her friends. She sticks to them like glue.Whenever she is with her friends, I can not work up the courage to ask her out. I just... can't. I lock up.So please, does anyone have any advice as to what I could do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): When she's with her friends, walk up to her and say to her friends,
"'Scyoooze me ladies, privacy is needed." But in a flirty and mysterious way.
Then when they're gone, say to her something along the lines of,
"I heard you liked me," then pause to see her reaction and then say,
"And you wanted me to ask you out?" Then pause again then say,
"Well, that's what I'm tryna do riiiight... now :)" Then look at her re-action, if she smiles and says yes, say,
"So is that a yes?" hopefully, so se realises you like her. But if the look on her face is doubtful say, "Sorry, if you want to say no look at, [insert your best friend's name here] and laugh at him, he dared me."
Then if she doesn't like you, she'll never know :P:)!!!
Good luck hunniie xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Do you girls mind that "write a letter" thing?
I mean I've been contemplating emailing (or asking her on AIM if she would ever log on) her saying that, but, I wasn't sure if she'd be less happy to see me only writing a letter.
Although, I guess I could play the "Aw, he's so shy, what a cutie" card. :P
Thanks for the advice.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (5 August 2008):
 You could go straightfoward towards where she is and say "Can I please have a few moments with _____? I want to tell her something." Although her friends will probably respond with some "ooohs! and aaahs!" which probably make you feel embarrased, but it will be worth it when she says yes (since it's already comfirmed she likes you back).
Now, if you are the shy kind of person, you could always write her a note telling her your feelings and that you want to ask her out. Or, you could write a letter telling her to meet you up in a certain place (if you want to be cheesy, try to find a romantic looking-one) and hang it to her personally or ask a friend of yours to hang it to her and say it's from you (write your name in the letter too).
Oh, talking about using friends, you could always ask a friend of yours to go up to your crush and tell her that you need to talk to her (i.e. "_____ needs to talk to you, can you come?").
Or you could just wait when she's alone. If that moment happens, don't hesitate at all and ask her out.
I hope this helps, but when the time comes, good luck with everything!
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Damn, i felt the pain just reading that.
I know how it must of felt for you at that particular moment. Just be patient, someday somewhere you'll find her alone.. like coming out of the toilets or seeing her in the street and thats when u can say hi and whatever. :)
be brave and go for it.
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