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writes:I think i'm starting to fall for my (guy)friend. We've been friends for a year maybe but we just started to get a lot closer in the last few months, and we spend a lot of time together just the two of us (as opposed to with our group of friends there too). I really like him and i'm pretty much sure he feels the same. I'm really worried that we'll end up ruining our friendship though, I definately don't want that to happen. I'm also have pretty much no experience sexually with guys and I think that would be really awkward when the situation arose - infact, that's honestly what i'm worried most about. I really like him but I'm not sure what to do, what do you think?Thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 If this guy really likes you for who you are he won't have a problem with you having no experience sexually. Being new to sexuality is something beautiful you are deciding to share, or no to, with someone and you shouldn't be ashamed of it. Read some books, look at porn, learn, at least theoretically.
When the time comes and you are ready to take that step (and have condoms available of course), be sure to take it with someone you trust and love. First times don't repeat themselves!
Good luck!
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (1 December 2007):
1st question:
Don't worry about losing the friendship. Love based on anything but friendship is a mansion built on sand.
2nd)
Guy's like girls who don't know what to do. He isnt going to be turned off by you being inexperienced. just be patient. laugh, giggle, relax. He will enjoy you no matter what. And you will enjoy him. And thats what matters!
Message me if you need more advice
-Tea
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (1 December 2007):
hiya! i had a guy friend and i fell for him. but he didnt feel the same way as i did and he wasnt ready so i kind of rushed into it and yh....lets just say we not really friends anymore.
i would just see what happens. stay yourself and let nature take its course.....you never know if you leave it then something might happen when you are both ready.
please feel free to mail me if you have anything you want to talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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