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I really like him so why do I blow hot and cold with him?

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Question - (3 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm not sure what I am doing, I keep blowing hot and cold with this guy who I really like.

We have known each other for a few years, never dated but we used to work together, we have kissed a few times, he wanted more but I said not at work but I was really scared to move on from a kiss although deep down I wanted to. Now he dosn't work with me and he wants us to meet up, so we can basically sleep together (he has said), I really like him and I do want to sleep with him but I just lack the confidence, I suggested we just meet up for a kiss and he said that's fine but he thought I wanted the same as him which I do, should I just say that I want to but lack confidence or should I just leave it and say nothing, what should I do?

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A female reader, AlexCM United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2009):

you should say, exactly how you feel! no doubt that he will understand and that should give you a little bit more confidence. as long as you are having safe sex and you are both comfterable with each other and the situation. things should be fine! xx

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