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writes:I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what made him want to stay with her, now his child is one and the two of them are over, he has come back to me and wants us two to get back into a relationship but me and his child's mother are really close friends and I see his son as my nephew. I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap. All advice given will be really appreciated,thank you x Reply to this Question
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (3 January 2009):
 You seem to have doubts, I would go with them. This is a situation that you do not want to be involved to that level in at your age. Also there is a chance you could be the next to get pregnant.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Go with your gut. You are just not that into him anymore, which is fine. It just means you know what you don't want in a guy or yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you ;) i will take that into serious consideration as for it was really good information xx
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY +, writes (3 January 2009):
 you seem very young to be stuck in the middle of something like this, you also dont sound that keen on him - not as much as you used to be, i personally would tell him you just wanted to be friends and leave it at that(if you do end up with him dont be getting yourself pregnant tho!)find someone with no baggage and no problems, you are only young and have plenty of time to do so x
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