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writes:Hello all please help me please, i am a male and i started masturbating on the 24th of september 2013 sometimes i do it 3times a day sometimes its only 2times and sometimes once a day , sometimes i can go for 2weeks without masturbating and i don't know how to get rid of it permanently, i also masturbated yesterday and a day before, but my main problem is that just yesterday night i went to a sexworker and we had sex i did't feel any single pleasure and i ejaculated within seconds not even with a single pleasure, please i need help , help me please am so scared that its a permanent problem without any soluioon, i really need help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thank you all for the great answers you gave me, am so greatful
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2014): I don't know much about your culture's views on sex but it sounds like it's viewed as a shameful thing since it took you so long to start masturbating. then again, I'm not sure of the average age of a guy to masturbate in my country either - sometimes children self-pleasure when no one's looking.
I want to tell you that masturbating, as long as you are not in front of anyone who doesn't want to see it is NOT a bad thing. You can always do it in the shower if need be. It is only bad when the woman you are thinking about/watching on porn movies is just an object to you. A sex worker or stripper bothers me too, but that's more my opinion than anything else. It's because women are frequently made as objects.
When you get married or get a girlfriend, and she wants to have sex with you, you will last longer before ejaculating, you can even practice that when masturbating. Like, force yourself to stop if you think you're going to ejaculate and allow it to go a away a bit and then build up some more. Also, if you have an all-day build-up, it makes sense that you'd ejaculate sooner. That happens to my boyfriend quite a bit when he spends all day with a hard penis.
I don't know how often it's normal to masturbate, but it seems like you are in the range of normal. Unless it's interrupting your life and preventing you from taking responsibility, there's not a problem at all.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (23 September 2014):
 You'll find that that little feller (your Peenie) is going to control you and your life for a Loooooooong time..... so get used to it......
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2014): Don't worry. Everyone's first time only last seconds and you're so nervous/relieved you're not a virgin anymore that you don't feel the pleasure. Get yourself someone to have sex with regularly and you will
Learn to pleasure each other the way you both like best
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