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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:hi i've been seeing a guy for 6 weeks we both agreed on just fun with each other. we seen each other once a week which was ok, we had great chat as well and enjoyed each others company. i didnt see him the other night and couldnt get hold of him so i put it on a social site that we'd been seeing each other, now he wont speak to me and said we should leave it now! but i dont know why he's being like this, his ex-girlfriend has seen the status i put, she's not bothered by it, no-one was, he enjoyed the time with me, i just cant understand why he doesnt want to see me no-more as he won't give me a good reason, please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): hi online status girl here, thanx so much for your feed bk, i did make it clear 2 him i wouldnt see him if any1 else was involved & he told me there was no1 else i've have known him for a long time so anything he was hiding i would of found out about, but since i put it on social site i have been told some horrible things that he as done in the past 2 ex-girlfriends when i've asked him about this he said there not true, he seems a bit confused & maybe is best i just move on from him as hes still not been in touch with me x
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (27 April 2011):
imho
he didnt want you to show that you both are seeing each other because he was hunting on other women
so he can choose who he like's the best
and start a real relationship with her
while keeping the others on the pure friendship side
Gooc Luck
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (27 April 2011):
If you were just having fun (having casual sex) then it is likely he doesn't see you as a girlfriend, and probably saw what you did as being inappropriate. I would be a bit freaked out as well, to be honest.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 April 2011):
Usually when a man flips out at something like this, he's hiding something. Even someone with commitment phobia doesn't react quite this badly. As I see it , one of two things happened:
1 - There was another woman somewhere who he didn't tell you about, and who doesn't know about you.
2 - He really wants his ex back, but wanted fun at the same time.
Either way, avoid this kind of man. Also, in the future be careful how much you write on social sites.
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